Jimmy lives with his mum and brother Ben who is severely autistic. Even though Jimmy is the youngest he has to act like an older brother most of the time. Jimmy is Ben’s only friend and they like playing together, but it always has to be Ben’s game and Jimmy often feels frustrated that Ben doesn’t understand his wants and feelings. Jimmy cannot have friends’ round because of Ben and mum is often busy helping Ben so he does his homework by himself and often gets his own breakfast. He helps mum get things ready so they can leave the house on time, as Ben has a long routines. Jimmy gives his mum lots of hugs as she is often tired and stressed from helping Ben.

Be Free Young Carers has given Jimmy the opportunity to meet other young carers who have siblings with autism and/or other learning difficulties. He feels understood when with them and can talk about what frustrates and confuses him openly. He also loves getting out the house on our trips!